Day 2 "RE-defining Me"

Today I noticed that, I define myself Wrongly. 

I'm sure we all have done that, define  ourself by what we said or do. 

It take something or someone to do something to you yo change who you are.

                                       We are not what we do we are who we want to be, just because i write don't make me a Writer.
I'm just someone who likes to write for fun.
  

Who you are is a huge thing to people today, because everyone likes to know that they are someone are somebody that is important.

I am drew, I am me and that's who       ...........................................I am
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Its Okay!!

Hey!! 

Joke: 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K3eb0Kick6w&feature=g-user-u

The say that people could Make two big mistakes in life and one of them is falling in love with the wrong person the other i don't really remember. 

I say that falling in love with someone isn't a mistake but it shows that your human.

I know someone who said that they would never fall in love with anyone!! but the person did!! they  fall head first for that special someone. And for a moment in life the person found happiness. No matter what happen around the person the person always find a way to be happy Because the person found love. The story doesn't end well for this person. They got there heart broken!! 

But I dont want to talk about how sad it was for that person when there heart go broken but how they  where when they where in love!! 

Love i most say is a powerful thing it can change a man/woman and it brake them.

I saw that person become this kind hearted person that i know but they never showed. And for a moment in life i  was happy for them. 

The person was on there Cloud 9.

And then the person fall. the tried to be strong about it but it was a big mistake.

So i choose to talk about heartbreak today Because i fell in love with someone recently. 

And it was hard for me when i got the memo that they person didn't like me back. 

I know ,ouch right!! 

Yeah But im okay with it now!! 

So Choose to tell you how to get over a heartbreak. 
1. Get out and about and interact with people, being home only make you feel bad about what went down. and you know what they say if you cant fix the past why dwell on it. So get out and socialize with people this would help you get over that person that hurt you. 

2. I like to call this next step or tip the rebound girl/ guy. Breakups often are a time of intense emotional Vulnerability.We are seeking stability.When we feel we can't internally create it. it is quite possible to engage in unhealthy new relationship that covers up healthy relationship grieving.  
While at first the replacement relationship brings a sense of euphoria, the unresolved emotions from the previous relationship often return, creating a more complicated and confusing emotional environment. If you find yourself falling into a new and exciting relationship too soon, you could be experiencing a rebound.

3. Cry!! its okay to  cry you just lost someone that use to mean the world to you.Crying is one of the most healthy things you can do to get over that someone, But remember not to spend too much time  crying over that person set a time limit to cry!! not too much!! 

4. Get back up!! Look at yourself and smell the roses that relationship is over, now its up to you to get back up and make something of yourself !! there are tons of girls/guys out there that would date you!! you just have to make yourself datable.

5. Last but most important of all try to  stay friends with that person.Even if you guys are done or broken up doesn't mean that you have to say the worst thing about this person. Remember this person was the one you said you love the most and the one that was so beautiful to you. So don't kill your friendship with awful comment and tell the person there ugly!! because it just make you hypothetical!!   
Relationships can be hard and brake ups are the worst but just hang in there your story is still being written!! 

Knock knock its heartbreak

Hey!!!

Joke:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nn-dD-QKYN4&feature=g-hist

We tell ourself all the time that we wouldn't fall for that person!! We tell ourself that we are over that person!! You loved so much an then you spend a few hours with them and you notice that your not over that person.

And then your left with heartbreak to think that she is with someone else.

They say "that boys don't cry" but I guess it's okay to say I'm no longer a boy I'm a man cause that pain of that person not being mines made me cry.

It choose to describe that emotion like and alcoholic been given alcohol after been off of it for years and then falling backward in all his progress.

Who ever it was that say that "falling in love is the easy part, the break up is the hard part" was right!! Because that moment that person said aww this isn't working or when you Notice that what you both just don't work, is the moment for the pain.

But the hardest part is us still being friends and seeing your smile all the time and thinking that I use to be the reason you smile like that, but now I'm not.

I don't know if you guys could relate to the feeling I'm having but I just want tell you guys when you find that someone you love more than anything in the world hold on to that person. Moments like these are fair tale like and normally end at midnight but once you have that one person that make you say the most crazy stuff or that makes your heart skip a beat when your around them or that you just can't get off your mind then you found that rear thing in life call love!!