Day 4 "Removing Negative Labels"

In life people are always putting labels on us they tell us what we can and can't not do and this just drives me crazy and sometimes its okay.

One thing i noticed in life is that you can not stop people from labelling you but you can  remove them and make people see that they don't know you the way they think that they do. 

What some people don't know is that words are like seed if you put the words that people tell you, you become just that. 

People might call you fat, freak, Ugly , A failure, or lazy and so much more, but what do you call yourself, who are you, its not what's on the outside that matters its what's on the inside. 

when they call you fat remember your  happy just the way you are you might be a little or you might be honestly over weight  but  if you dont have a problem with that why should others. 

They might call you are freak but what they might find  freaky you might find normal or perfect.

 Some people have the nerve of calling some people Ugly, this just upsets me the most!! because what some people find ugly i find beautiful a masterpiece, i  think that no one is ugly but everyone is beautiful in there own way or  someone find that person just prefect. 

I could go on and on about how people are wrong. 

Don't let anyone label you and make you feel that you can't remove that negative label. 

If they tell you cant it doesn't mean that they are right, there is nothing wrong with trying.

wearing these people negative label is just one small stone in your path to your happiness!! 

start your day  right by putting thinking the right way!! 

your are perfect just the way you are!! 

Remove that  Negative label and Claim your happiness and hold on to it. 

What i Leaned form Pinocchio!!

Once a twice in my life i like to look back at things that happen to me. 

Today I was reading a book to my sister and i notice something. 

That this book i was reading was the stepping stone to my little 2 Year old sisters Future.

I was Reading 

The V8 moment happen to me and made me notice that the power of believing can change someone's very 

Existence.

Its kinda weird to look at Pinocchio as  but just think about it for a moment. 

1. Pinocchio had a father and someone who loves him very much just like we as people does. And like pinocchio we are all looking for something from life, For Pincochio it was to be a real boy for some of us it moist me something more...for me its finding my place in this world. 

2. Believing

That one  word can change the very person we are. Just like Pinocchio. If we to Believe  in something it can happen.

I know what your think you just sat there and read this crap about how this fairy tale Change things in peoples life but even if you didnt get it i want to share it.

Hey There Delilah

There is this song that came out a few years ago call "Plain White T's - "Hey There Delilah"

Which happens to be the name of this blog post today!! 

The song is about this girl who is far away and how he misses her and how he cant get her off his mind cuz of what she did to him. 

I'm Writing this Because everyone has there Delilah in there life. 

That person doesn't have to be far away,but its that feeling you have for that person that gives you this rush that makes you feel so good about yourself.

 And then you and this person drifting apart even when you don't it to happen.

I like to think of this feeling like this:

Picture this, 

Your this really fat person or you have this problem that makes you seem as if no one would want you and then this person who you never would think that would every be interesting in you comes along and it happens. 

You fell in love with your Delilah. But them something happens and that person have to go far away and leave you all alone.

and your left to listen to crappy love song or brake song  and wish that person was still there. 

I just want to say that 

I know that feeling and it suck! 

but the saddest thing to sit around and watch this person slip away if you loved that person you should let something...such as distance or what ever reason get in your way of that feeling you have for that person. 

If you love that person the only person standing in your way of you and your love is YOU!! Get up!! Be real and Get her/ him back!!

  

That change!! that switch!!

Sometime you look at yourself and see the change I mean for me I have change a huge deal form a baby to a kid then a teen and how an adult!! Just yesterday I was looking at some pic of myself and I realized that I love the person I have become. I don't have everything in life but I have life!!

It's okay for me to say I'm weird!! I have gone through every faze there is out there and I could say that I'm one odd potato..

I just wanted to take time our to say that change is your bitch and you have to be the owner of it and turn it into this person you want it to be!!

I mean a lot of people have this thing in there mind that people have to find them-self in life, that not true,your not finding yourself your making yourself and all that jazz people tell you about how you can't you can!! Trust me I have been told a lot of things, look at me Im writing a blog and I have dreams!!

I'm not one to boost but it up to you to stand out, be all up in that persons face who ever told you can't it's a new year!! it's a new you!! Fight don't run away life may seem unfair!! That's life!!!

I not gonna tell anyone of you that life can get fair it's not gonna get fair!! It up to you to make it in your life!

There is this show I watch!! The man in the show would say when life hands you crap "flip that switch" I mean the writers of this show did a good job at making it one to remember!!

So I want to tell you guys to "flip that switch"

Just think about life is like a switch you the one in charge you can change it!!

I would like to wake up everyday and flip that switch when I'm having a bad day!!

Okay I want you guys to drop me a comment on what you would like to flip that switch on in life!!

Tell me what you want to start liking in life what you want to start to change in life!!!

There Codes!! That we don't Know!! :O

Hey Y'all 

Joke: 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u-yLGIH7W9Y

Why are Women so indirect in what they want or say? They  Ask you one thing and expect you to answer or react the opposite. Or they'll test you to see if you'll do the right thing.
Sometimes I think that girls/women  expect us as males/boys to read there minds.
So thanks to my many years of hanging with the ladies I now understand some of them but  I still have a long way to go.
This blog post will decode the females mind into dude!!
Please ladies if I miss understand some of your saying please feel free to drop me an email saying I'm wrong or just leave a comment.
1. "Nothing is wrong, I'm Okay"
Means: This is so messed up right now there is so many things that not right and I want you to beg me over and over again until I tell you what the hell is up.
2. "Do I look fat?"
Means: This one took me years to understand but I think I got it. It mean that they feel very insecure at moment and I just want someone to tell me that I'm flawless. Also it mean its that time of the month and she feels like an animal.
3. "I will Get Ready quickly. it will only take a minute."
Means: I'm gonna take a few hours to get ready because when we go out I  want peoples mouth to drop when they see us.
4."It's not you, I've just been really busy lately"
Means: leave me the hell alone, I'm not into you, your a real pain and this doesn't have any other meaning so if you get this your really one hell of a mess.
5. "I really Hate"
Means: OMG I so into you right now!! I love you so much that ill do anything to do anything for you.
Please note it depends on how this is been used. Because  this could also mean that your a jerk!! and she really hates you for real.
6. "Fine, do  whatever you like im cool with it"
Means: I dare you to do that shit and you'll see the real me. Normally girls say that line when they  are pissed and just cant take your Jazz!!.
7. "We need to talk"
Means: I need to tell you something important and I want you to listen . What ever people tell you or you heard about this line its not a brake up line.
 8. "Are you listening to me"
Means: I don't even know why I try with you any-more, it like talking to  a wall. 

I personally think that females think that we read minds and that we have this part in our brain that tells us everything they are saying!! But we Don't ladies So try to be real with us!!! try not to  talk in A different Language.
We are humans too!! try talking Human for a change!!
lucky for me is that i  understand the code so!! Your not doing this for me but your doing this for your relationships!! I know for a fact that some of you reading this single!! So read this and read this carefully.
Girls! Try to be direct with us dudes
Dudes! Try to always listen to what she has to say!!

Its Okay!!

Hey!! 

Joke: 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K3eb0Kick6w&feature=g-user-u

The say that people could Make two big mistakes in life and one of them is falling in love with the wrong person the other i don't really remember. 

I say that falling in love with someone isn't a mistake but it shows that your human.

I know someone who said that they would never fall in love with anyone!! but the person did!! they  fall head first for that special someone. And for a moment in life the person found happiness. No matter what happen around the person the person always find a way to be happy Because the person found love. The story doesn't end well for this person. They got there heart broken!! 

But I dont want to talk about how sad it was for that person when there heart go broken but how they  where when they where in love!! 

Love i most say is a powerful thing it can change a man/woman and it brake them.

I saw that person become this kind hearted person that i know but they never showed. And for a moment in life i  was happy for them. 

The person was on there Cloud 9.

And then the person fall. the tried to be strong about it but it was a big mistake.

So i choose to talk about heartbreak today Because i fell in love with someone recently. 

And it was hard for me when i got the memo that they person didn't like me back. 

I know ,ouch right!! 

Yeah But im okay with it now!! 

So Choose to tell you how to get over a heartbreak. 
1. Get out and about and interact with people, being home only make you feel bad about what went down. and you know what they say if you cant fix the past why dwell on it. So get out and socialize with people this would help you get over that person that hurt you. 

2. I like to call this next step or tip the rebound girl/ guy. Breakups often are a time of intense emotional Vulnerability.We are seeking stability.When we feel we can't internally create it. it is quite possible to engage in unhealthy new relationship that covers up healthy relationship grieving.  
While at first the replacement relationship brings a sense of euphoria, the unresolved emotions from the previous relationship often return, creating a more complicated and confusing emotional environment. If you find yourself falling into a new and exciting relationship too soon, you could be experiencing a rebound.

3. Cry!! its okay to  cry you just lost someone that use to mean the world to you.Crying is one of the most healthy things you can do to get over that someone, But remember not to spend too much time  crying over that person set a time limit to cry!! not too much!! 

4. Get back up!! Look at yourself and smell the roses that relationship is over, now its up to you to get back up and make something of yourself !! there are tons of girls/guys out there that would date you!! you just have to make yourself datable.

5. Last but most important of all try to  stay friends with that person.Even if you guys are done or broken up doesn't mean that you have to say the worst thing about this person. Remember this person was the one you said you love the most and the one that was so beautiful to you. So don't kill your friendship with awful comment and tell the person there ugly!! because it just make you hypothetical!!   
Relationships can be hard and brake ups are the worst but just hang in there your story is still being written!! 

Fight or Flight!!

Hey Goodnight Y'all 

Joke: 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=odBDAcOEKuI

1 million people killed them self this year and the numbers are slowly growing because we as humans can't stop being bullies.

What persons fail to realize is that words hurt and everything we say has and effect on person. 

I was told by someone that I'm stupid and that I'll never be something in life. 

I was told this at a very young age and I took it to heart I grew up telling myself that I'm Stupid and I cant do  stuff in life and it didn't help that my grades in school just weren't good. I mean I would study for hours and hours and still just barely pass a test.

It made me believe that i truly Stupid. 

Years  later I found out that I had a learning disorder. which crushed me that person was right I was really stupid. 

But I Had someone next to me that was a pillar and push me even more to do my best (my Mom) even if i  fail a test she would tell me that i  did good and encourage me. 

 And then my mom got sick and i  feel as if i just couldn't do my work any more because it was my turn to encourage her to push and fight for her life.But there was still someone there to push me to be and do my best my best friends. 

I have to say that I'm Glad that I had people around me that helped me every time someone would say mean things to me just because I  didn't understand something or the words I write didn't come out right.

What I'm Trying to say tonight is that that 1 million persons that killed them self this year because of bullying or because of one persons words didn't have to kill them self if they had someone there to stand up for them and fight back. 

We are all humans we all have feels and emotions And its up to us to push our self to fight when we can leave. Always remember that sometime all someone need to hear is that they  can  do something are they are good at something to make it in life. Try to be nice you never know if that could  save someone's  life. 

Knock knock its heartbreak

Hey!!!

Joke:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nn-dD-QKYN4&feature=g-hist

We tell ourself all the time that we wouldn't fall for that person!! We tell ourself that we are over that person!! You loved so much an then you spend a few hours with them and you notice that your not over that person.

And then your left with heartbreak to think that she is with someone else.

They say "that boys don't cry" but I guess it's okay to say I'm no longer a boy I'm a man cause that pain of that person not being mines made me cry.

It choose to describe that emotion like and alcoholic been given alcohol after been off of it for years and then falling backward in all his progress.

Who ever it was that say that "falling in love is the easy part, the break up is the hard part" was right!! Because that moment that person said aww this isn't working or when you Notice that what you both just don't work, is the moment for the pain.

But the hardest part is us still being friends and seeing your smile all the time and thinking that I use to be the reason you smile like that, but now I'm not.

I don't know if you guys could relate to the feeling I'm having but I just want tell you guys when you find that someone you love more than anything in the world hold on to that person. Moments like these are fair tale like and normally end at midnight but once you have that one person that make you say the most crazy stuff or that makes your heart skip a beat when your around them or that you just can't get off your mind then you found that rear thing in life call love!!

Only Jackasses!! Judge!!

Hey 
Joke:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gwUX4cSwrRk&feature=g-hist
I find its easy for people

 to be happy when they don't know what others are going through.

I mean yeah that girl is only 

17 and she has a baby, and yeah she had to drop out of school and yeah she shouldn't have been having sex until she had 2 rings on her hands. She choose to have the baby not kill it, but people don't see that all they see is a girl that made a mistake. So this girl now goes and get child support and now you gonna look at her and call her lazy for wanting to be there for her child till he/she is older.

Lets be real that that girl went and work you all would be saying "oh what kind of mother leaves there baby and go work like that"

You see

 what I'm getting at is that people will always judge you no matter what you do!! So the best thing to is block them out and if your

 one to judge please stop!! Words hurt more than action!!

Lets be fair with this you judge one Person but 

you leave another out. That pregnant girl isn't

 Mary someone was involved to make that baby happen.

What about that boy that person

 who slept with that girl! Why don't you judge him too!

I'm pretty sure that if he was still in school he is still there while this girl carries the baby and take care of it all by herself. And if he is not in school he may not even care that he got a girl pregnant!!

But maybe he is taking care of this baby with her,you never know

What I'm trying to say is that people judge and they judge without having all the information!!

If you ever find yourself at a point where everyone is being judgmental to you just keep your head up and remember what Kelly Clarkson says "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger" they don't know a thing about you!!

Keep in mind that after ever hurricane come a moment of peace and silence!! And you would have your moment in life One day!!

The L word

Hey 

Joke: 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mu7K1r9KdSk&list=SP7D4AAB2314C5A024

There was a blind girl who hated herself because she was blind. 

She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for her.

She told her boyfriend, 'If I could only see the world, I will marry you.'

One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her. When the bandages came off, she was able to see everything, including her boyfriend. 

He asked her, 'Now that you can see the world, will you marry me?'

The girl looked at her boyfriend and saw that he was blind. The sight of his closed eyelids shocked her. She hadn't expected that. The thought of looking at them the rest of her life led her to refuse to marry him. 

Her boyfriend left her in tears and days later wrote a note to her saying: 

'Take good care of your eyes, my dear, for before they were yours, they were minee.'

when i  read this story The only thing that was on my mind was loyalty. 

there is a saying that says  

" Achievement of your Happiness is the only moral Purpose of your life, and that happiness, not pain or mindless self-indulgence, is the proof of your moral integrity, since it is the proof and the result of your loyalty to the achievement of your values."  Ayn Rand

Loyalty is the quality of being loyal to someone or something, loyalty is one of someone's best quality.

There is nothing no one want more then to know that they can count on someone to be there for them. It is key to say that  nothing warms my heart then to know that if I depend on someone they are there for me. It's like a dog and it owner it know its owner and it would always be there  for its owner.

 Loyalty is in every relationship without loyalty in relationships the life you share with that person is dead, it would be like looking for a pin in the dark!!

I don't want to sound like I have a judgemental mind but if you are In a relationship with someone who is not Loyal then what they hell are doing there!!! Get out or stay and live in a state of lie!!

Read this and read this carefully. Don't think because you can see well now like the blind girl from above and that person who is loyal to you when your down on your face is not important. Because not everything that glitters is gold!!!

Sex And Porn

HEY!! 

Joke: 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T9p8aUQTq-M

I attended A Christian For Almost all of my life and the odd thing about it is that it was some what like a normal School besides that fact that in normal school, the male population didn't just discussed Porn and sex all day!! 
And since i  Don't Part take   in that kind of activity I had nothing to talk with them about So i spend time with the females where I learn how girls really wanted to treated and what they  want for a guy.
I know it sounds kind of gay that I don't watch porn or have sex but its not.
It just mean that I live with  standards and I was through from a young age that what you put in comes out!!
Now I'm not saying that I'm never gonna have Sex but I'm saying that I'm only gonna have sex with one person when I'm married. 
I know it sounds weird when you read it out loud but its a fact.
I think that if everyone live with the standards that they  where thought as kids while growing up the world would be a perfect  place.
I would never ever watch porn.
I saw it once and i  rather not talk about that moment for me.
To me most persons/people I know who watch this "Art" as they  call it have messed up minds they  live in this fantasy world where they walk around and lust as every girl that they see.
Now I'm not say that there weren't moment when the male population of  the school I attended
didn't discussed porn or sex I'm saying that at least 60% of the time they did. They rest of the time they  would talk about normal things.
Now I'm not Trying to  say that males are the only one that watch porn and talk about having sex the females did also but not as often as the males did.
Now for every male that's reading my blog I want to  say to you.
Girls do talk about sex  because they want to  but because you guys seem to be into the sex more than you are into them.
But if you set Standards for yourself and let the person that your dating that you
Love them and respect too much to cross that line with them and have sex, Outside of marriage.
This world would be perfect for you.
I know that sounds like I'm telling you that I want you to be serious with the person your dating and that's exactly what I'm saying, if you don't see yourself with this person for life well don't have sex with her.

And for Every Girl reading this blog post, I want to tell you that if you Say no to  every guy that tries to  have sex with you, then most of the guys would respect you and the rest would come around to respect you also.
We live in  a world where there is sex and porn in everything we watch.
And its up to us to be our own role Model.
Because no one out there is gonna be a better role model for you besides you!!
So wise up ladies and become a man Males.
 And Remember that only person standing in your way of becoming a  good  individual  is you!

YOU

Hello!!  

Joke: 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7N5OhNplEd4&feature=g-logo

There are many things that was said about me, and people called me a lot of hurtful things.
And for a moment in life I Believe them. You could say that words have an effect on me. I think what i  should say that words have away of affecting everyone.
There was A young lady living with us just recently. She had a problem with herself. She said
"im ugly"
My mom looked and her and ask her why she would say such a thing she said
 "Everyone says so"
I could never forget what my told her
"You are not ugly People just hate the fact that your better then then"
My mom came to me later and and told me that she wanted to cry when she hear what this young lady say that.
Im sure you know or  have been called something that  you didn't like.
   And if your like this young lady I  want to  say to  you.
"You are what you want to be, you are your kind of perfect. People will never like you Because are better then them. dream big, Live and love life to the fullest don't let anyone stop you form being  your best. Always wake up and look at the morning face as scary as it is and say my kind of perfect"  -Kendrew Glasgow

This week I had a hard time finding myself .
I was having a hard week and to make it worst i almost die. So i had some time to thing about my life.
 And i notice that i might not have the best things in life but im thankful for them.